Breaking Free: The Damaging Habit of Sucking-It-In

Breaking Free the Damaging Habit of Sucking-It-In and the Impact on Pelvic Health

In a society where the beauty standard seems to consistently fall on thin waists and flat tummies too many of us have normalized and internalized the destructive habit of sucking it in. Constantly clenching the muscles of our abdomen to make ourselves the smallest version and not allowing for that full beautiful expansion and bodyment of ourselves.

Not only are we not allowing ourselves to be truly comfortable in our own skin, but this chronic contraction of our abdominal muscles has more damaging implications. Constraining our bodies' ability to naturally expand and adjust to the pressure within creates stress and under prolonged stress potential damage to the structures.

Let's talk about what sucking it in is actually doing to our bodies. How we can start accepting and loving ourselves for every inch, and what we can do to prevent and reverse any potential problems that may have come from this toxic habit.

The Societal Pressure to "Hold It In"

The pressure to have a flat stomach is not just a fleeting trend; it’s an ingrained societal standard that many women carry daily. This expectation creates a chronic state of tension in the abdominal area as we habitually "suck in" to conform to these ideals. Anxiety often exacerbates this tension, leading to an almost constant clenching of the abdominal muscles and a sense of holding or restriction in the body. While the goal may be to appear smaller or more controlled, the long-term effects of this habit are far from beneficial.

Disruptive Effects of Sucking-It-In

The Diaphragm and Pelvic Floor

Our diaphragm is the muscle responsible for respiration or breathing when we inhale it contracts and moves downward when we exhale it relaxes and returns back up. In a healthy Dynamic body there is a dance between the diaphragm and our pelvic floor as well as the muscles along the abdominal wall. Inhalation occurs when the diaphragm drops the muscles in the abdomen and pelvic floor surrenders to the expansion making space and when we exhale everything naturally relaxes and softens back. When the abdomen is in a constant state of contraction the diaphragm is not able to freely move, the pressure gets pushed all downward excessively straining the pelvic floor.

When the diaphragm is able to freely move throughout its range of motion in breath it brings on a multitude of benefits such as:

  • Massaging the abdominal organs helps with circulation and blood flow to these vital parts of our body

  • Massages and stimulates lymphatic circulation to support immune health and reduce swelling and inflammation throughout the body

  • Massages and stimulates smooth muscle tissue into peristalsis aiding in digestion

  • Massages pelvic organs and alleviates menstrual cramps as well as helps increase circulation to reproductive organs to keep them happy and healthy

Without this free movement our body is no longer receiving those amazing benefits leading to decreased circulation, decreased peristalsis, decreased functionality within the organs and organ systems in our abdomen.

Dysregulated Inner Abdominal Pressure

Our bodies are constantly having to adjust to the pressure within them. As we inhale, as we cough, as we sneeze, lift heavy weights contractions and muscles throughout our body displace the pressure and other muscles are meant to accommodate for this displacement. When a group of muscles especially ones as broad and covering as the abdominal muscles are in a constant state of shortened contraction regulation of inner abdominal pressure is harder to obtain and maintain. This puts unnecessary and excessive strain on the pelvic floor muscles, if this is a prolonged experience in our bodies this can lead to pressure conditions and injuries such as:

  • Urinary incontinence: the inability to control when urine leaves the body either from stress such as a sneeze or a cough or even just the inability to hold it in when urgency occurs

  • Pelvic organ prolapse: when the organs of the pelvis start to drop from their natural position this could impede into the vaginal canal and even sometimes out of the vaginal opening in severe cases Hiatal hernias

  •  Abdominal hernias

  •  Inguinal hernias

  •  Even herniated or bulging discs in the spine

Reclaiming Your Body and Breath

The negative effects from prolonged clenching of the abdomen is not inevitable and in minor cases even reversible. You can break free from Old Habits let that Buddha belly go and your breath move freely. And you can start to retrain your body and breath and bring Health back to your pelvis.

Step one. Right now relax your belly unclench your jaw take a deep breath in and let the lower abdomen go.

Take in another deep breath and see if you can even let the upper abdomen release.

This may take a few breaths and conscious unclenching. But as you breathe allow your belly to surrender to the expansion of that breath and not resist bringing the majority of the movement away from the chest and down to the abdomen.

Inhale envisioning your body as a balloon your throat the part of the balloon you blow into and your stomach and belly the body of the balloon your pelvic floor the very top. As you inhale you inflate this balloon allowing it to expand out from every angle front back left and right and even drop down towards the floor. As you exhale just like a deflating balloon everything just naturally softens. Repeat this practice for a few minutes see if you can get a little softer each time.

Abdominal Self Massage

Tight muscles all over the body love massage and love touch. Take time for some self-care and self-love by gently massaging your abdomen in a clockwise motion with smooth slow and rhythmic strokes. Listening to your body and never pressing too hard but taking the time to move slow enough to melt and soften the tissue beneath your fingers.

Meditation and Mindfulness

When breaking a habit it will take time and awareness. Multiple things usually need to be addressed, great ways to start:

  • Taking moments of gratitude thanking your body for all it does for you

  • Soft moments of check-in periodically checking in with your body and taking the time to breathe into your belly and bring softness where there might be holding

  • Journaling and reflecting on the patterns of clenching and sucking it in. If something comes up that you want to dive in deeper with a professional I highly recommend bringing your notes and your concerns.

  • Wear clothes that fit, comfortable clothes that will not be pressing into your abdomen encouraging that sucking in are a great way to bring some self-love and self-care into your day today allowing yourself to expand fully into your beautiful goddess self

  • Meditating with deep breath work allows for Full Belly breathing

Embrace Expansion, Not Contraction

The journey to better pelvic health begins with letting go of the need to make yourself small. By embracing the fullness of your breath and allowing your body to move freely, you can prevent and even reverse many of the harmful effects of chronic belly sucking. Yoga and mindful movement offer a compassionate path to reconnecting with your body, fostering resilience, and reclaiming the space you deserve to take up in the world.

Let your breath be expansive, your movements mindful, and your presence unapologetically full.


The Wellness Nook to Muladhara Movement

From Brick-and-Mortar to Online Wellness Education: Our Journey of Evolution and Empowerment

As we navigate the ever-changing landscape of wellness, our business has undergone a significant transformation. What began as a cozy brick-and-mortar wellness nook offering therapeutic massage and yoga has now evolved into a dynamic online wellness education platform. This shift allows us to reach and empower more women, offering them the tools and knowledge to understand their own bodies and achieve balanced health.

Embracing Change: Our New Online Presence

Our journey started with a simple but powerful mission: to provide a sanctuary where individuals could experience the healing benefits of massage therapy and yoga. Over the years, we cultivated a community of wellness enthusiasts who found solace and strength within our walls. However, the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic forced us to close our doors temporarily, prompting us to regroup and rethink our approach. This period of reflection and redirection led us to embrace the digital realm and expand our reach.

Transitioning to an online platform was a natural progression for us. It opened up new possibilities for connecting with women globally, transcending geographical boundaries. Our online classes are designed to support women in their wellness journeys, offering insights into their own anatomy and teaching them to use their bodies as keys to balanced health through yoga and self-massage.

Empowering Women Through Education

One of our core focuses in this new phase is women's wellness education. We believe that understanding one’s own body is fundamental to achieving overall health and well-being. Our classes cover a range of topics, providing women with the knowledge and tools they need to nurture their bodies and minds.

Key Offerings:

-Anatomy and Physiology: Classes that delve into the intricacies of the female body, helping women understand their anatomy and physiological processes.

- Yoga and Self-Massage: Practical sessions that teach women how to use yoga and self-massage techniques to promote physical and mental balance.

- Advocacy and Communication: Workshops that empower women with the language and confidence to understand and advocate for their own health needs.

Supporting All Women and Future Educators

We have courses that are designed to support all women, regardless of where they are on their wellness journey. Whether you are just beginning to explore holistic health practices or are looking to deepen your existing knowledge, our classes offer valuable insights and practical tools.

In addition to individual wellness classes, we also offer teacher training programs for yoga instructors. These programs equip yoga teachers with the skills and knowledge to support their female students more effectively. By training educators, we aim to create a ripple effect, spreading the benefits of our approach to women's wellness far and wide.

In-Person Retreats for Deeper Connection

While our online platform allows us to reach women across the globe, we understand the unique value of in-person experiences. For those who prefer face-to-face interaction, we continue to offer in-person women's retreats. These retreats provide an immersive experience where women can connect deeply with themselves and each other in a supportive, nurturing environment.

Community Outreach and Support

Our commitment to women's wellness extends beyond our paying clients. We are dedicated to making a positive impact on the broader community through our outreach programs. We offer free training to women who have been financially disenfranchised and those in lower socioeconomic situations. By working with refugees, women's shelters, and other community organizations, we strive to provide valuable resources and support to those who need it most.

A Community of Empowered Women

As we continue to grow and evolve, our commitment to building a supportive community remains unwavering. Our online platform not only provides educational resources but also fosters a sense of connection among women from diverse backgrounds. Together, we share experiences, learn from each other, and support one another in our journeys towards holistic well-being.

Join Us on This Journey

We are excited about the future and the opportunities it holds for our community. By embracing the digital realm, we can offer our unique blend of therapeutic practices and educational content to women everywhere. We invite you to join us on this journey of evolution and empowerment. Whether you're looking to enhance your personal wellness, attend a transformative retreat, or become a beacon of support in your community, our classes and training programs are here to guide you every step of the way.

Together, we can create a world where women are empowered to understand, nurture, and advocate for their own health, leading lives of balance and fulfillment.

How to get into yoga?

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You have chosen to join the fantastic world of yoga; you've decided to prioritize yourself, stop outsourcing your healing, improve your mobility and improve your stability-

 mentally and physically

But like with most things, for whatever reason there isn't a start line; where do you begin?  do I start by going into a class? do I start by a video at home? start by reading a book? -The answer is to figure out what works best for you; in every situation there are many priorities that come to play.

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Things you want to make sure when starting any kind of fitness body practice, as well as a mental practice, is making sure you're doing it right ,avoiding any injury, avoiding any strain, and any stress again mentally and physically. 

Yoga is awareness, the practice of yoga is being aware of your body, mid and breath in that moment. unlike running on a treadmill and thinking about what you have to do for the rest of the day, what you have to handle with what happened earlier that day.  In yoga you are on your mat, you are thinking about the pose you're thinking about how your body feels in the pose and you are thinking about how your breath feels throughout the pose.- So if awareness is the key to yoga running with intention and mindfulness is practicing yoga, and doing asana(yoga pose) while thinking of your grocery list is not practicing yoga. 

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 In this sense when you are practicing yoga, you are unable to injure yourself because you are completely aware  while doing the asana.

There's plenty of physical challenges in yoga but one of the most challenging part of yoga is the mental part, the ability to let the world around you go and be on an island on your mat and being completely there.

As somebody who practices yoga, and who teaches yoga, as a body worker who helps patients and clients get through injuries from any kind of physical trauma, I always recommend to clients to start with a small groups or one-on-one, in any new physical practice. I highly recommend going to a personal trainer when you still want to start working out more and I highly recommend taking private yoga lessons when you want to start practicing yoga. No different than any other physical practice, alignment posture are key to getting what you want out of a asana and mobility and stability, but as well as preventing any sort of injury, so it is key to know that your alignment is correct, not just when you're in a pose but flowing between poses. Giving a video online or that you bought at the store is a great way to practice yoga but is not a great way to start practicing. You don't have someone there that knows the proper alignments to help with any adjustments, you don't have a person there to see if you need to do a pose differently to make sure you get the most out of your post, you don't have someone there to assist you in preventing any strains for injuries. Taking a class is more beneficial, because there is a teacher who's observing, however, when you go into a class, even a beginner class, it is not as beginner as it probably should be. Realistically, if you've never practice yoga, you don't need a beginner class, you need an intro class. You need to be introduced to yoga because when you've been introduced then you can do beginner stuff but introductory is not a part of average beginner class. Problems that might arise are things might be more challenging than you expected and then become discouraging. Also, if you personally have physical limitations you don't know how to modify poses that the average person can do for you just might need to do a little bit differently; which you can't always do with a whole class. the teacher is unable to show every modification for every physical adjustment. As well, when you're dealing with a class of say 20 students the teacher is unable to give you a hundred percent of their attention. This leaves you open for the opportunity for misalignment and for learning bad habits and learning poses incorrectly.

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 So, what I highly recommend to everyone introducing themselves to this new practice, is to do either very small introductory classes or one-on-one sessions with a yoga instructor. The benefits of doing a one-on-one session with your yoga instructor is you get full attention to make sure your alignment is where it needs to be so you can learn how the poses feels. How the stretches are meant to feel and where the strength is supposed to be coming from. The teacher is also able to customize the class, not only to your limitations and your needs but also to your goals and what you want out of your class. The teachers able to work with imbalances you have in your body to help bring balance back into your body The teacher would be able to help you bring strength where it is needed and flexibility where it's wanted and needed to help you get the most out of your yoga practice. You are able to ask questions throughout the class. Then you can take what you've learned from your private lesson and apply that to your full class or home yoga practice . 

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How frequent and for how long you should be doing private yoga sessions is determined on you. Determined on what your teacher thinks and how you are feeling. What I usually recommend when you're starting, to go minimum of once a week if you can go more than that, that is fantastic, however, if you can at least go once a week, and make sure to do stretching and mobility work in between your personal sessions. I would also recommend going for a minimum of six times and then, as you get more confident and more comfortable with the asanas ,with your body, then you can go to full classes, where you don't need as much focused attention from the teacher. Where you already know how to modify things that are more challenging for you and different poses were you already know what alignment you need in each posture. Then you can always come back to private lessons if you want just a little extra focus on something, if you feel that you're not getting it right, you could always come back to private sessions if you feel you need more attention to reach a goal, maybe you want to get into a headstand, and you would like someone to work with you one-on-one on how is best to get to that goal. Maybe you need a private therapeutic session to recover from an injury or maybe you just prefer private sessions, the way some people prefer to do personal training rather than take a workout class. Whatever fits your comfort, whatever fits your needs. the goal is to get yourself into yoga to get yourself into the practice and to get yourself doing it correctly so you can feel your best and be your happiest!

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How Massage Therapy can Keep You Healthy this Flu Season

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The cold, wet and gross flu season is with us. We wash our hands, avoid going out, use gallons of hand sanitizer and pounds of sanitizing wipes. We may even increase our vitamin C intake to keep us healthy. But maybe there is something more we can do. And something that wont dry up our skin in this already dry season....

Massage therapy has proven to have a multitude of benefits for our  mental and physical states, and some of these great benefits translate to directly helping our immune system and preventing illnesses. 

Massage helps us stay healthy in a number of ways broadening its approach to our wellness, From lowering stress, to increasing circulation, to aiding our GI tract so our bodies can flush toxins and harmful microbes out. 

Stress, mental or physical put a tole on our bodies, and their ability to work properly.  When we are under and stress our bodies and it's functions are not working at their bests. Which is an opportune time for harmful microbes to invade and make us sick. Receiving massage reduces both physical and mental stress.

Physically, massage therapy alleviates tension and unbalances in the muscle and connective tissue causing strain or discomfort in the body. Reducing physical stress on bone, joints and other muscles and connective tissue .

Mental stress can weaken the immune system, When we are over stressed we have adrenal fatigue from an over production of adrenaline. Massage reduces the production of adrenaline and cortisol in the body while increases the secretion of serotonin and dopamine which are feel good hormone that reduce stress.

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Massaging the body increases circulation through out the body. This improves your circulatory systems function. This breaks down to your cardiovascular system , your system that circulates blood, and lymphatic system, system that circulates lymph. 

Increasing the flow of blood in the body helps you flood nutrients to your cells and clears waist from them. This will keep you healthy and optimumly functional on the cellular level. 

Lymphatic circulation is responsible for clearing you body of toxin, excess fluids and waists. Lymph nodes filter out microbes and toxins to keep you healthy. Massage can help keep this system flowing and prevent blockages that may lead to an invasion of your body by illness. 

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You GI trace or digestive system , digests food but also eliminates waist. As well, a large number of lymph nodes can be found in the gut, So a healthy gut directly relates to a healthy body , Massage to the abdomen can stimulate peristalsis , the wave like contraction that moves waist through you GI and out of the body. Massage will also increase circulation in this area, increase cellular health and the continues flow of lymph through the lymph nodes. 

All of these benefits together keep your body functioning at its best. Nourishing cells eliminating harmful waists , reducing stress and keeping balanced. All key components to a healthy flu free season.