Breaking Free: The Damaging Habit of Sucking-It-In

Breaking Free the Damaging Habit of Sucking-It-In and the Impact on Pelvic Health

In a society where the beauty standard seems to consistently fall on thin waists and flat tummies too many of us have normalized and internalized the destructive habit of sucking it in. Constantly clenching the muscles of our abdomen to make ourselves the smallest version and not allowing for that full beautiful expansion and bodyment of ourselves.

Not only are we not allowing ourselves to be truly comfortable in our own skin, but this chronic contraction of our abdominal muscles has more damaging implications. Constraining our bodies' ability to naturally expand and adjust to the pressure within creates stress and under prolonged stress potential damage to the structures.

Let's talk about what sucking it in is actually doing to our bodies. How we can start accepting and loving ourselves for every inch, and what we can do to prevent and reverse any potential problems that may have come from this toxic habit.

The Societal Pressure to "Hold It In"

The pressure to have a flat stomach is not just a fleeting trend; it’s an ingrained societal standard that many women carry daily. This expectation creates a chronic state of tension in the abdominal area as we habitually "suck in" to conform to these ideals. Anxiety often exacerbates this tension, leading to an almost constant clenching of the abdominal muscles and a sense of holding or restriction in the body. While the goal may be to appear smaller or more controlled, the long-term effects of this habit are far from beneficial.

Disruptive Effects of Sucking-It-In

The Diaphragm and Pelvic Floor

Our diaphragm is the muscle responsible for respiration or breathing when we inhale it contracts and moves downward when we exhale it relaxes and returns back up. In a healthy Dynamic body there is a dance between the diaphragm and our pelvic floor as well as the muscles along the abdominal wall. Inhalation occurs when the diaphragm drops the muscles in the abdomen and pelvic floor surrenders to the expansion making space and when we exhale everything naturally relaxes and softens back. When the abdomen is in a constant state of contraction the diaphragm is not able to freely move, the pressure gets pushed all downward excessively straining the pelvic floor.

When the diaphragm is able to freely move throughout its range of motion in breath it brings on a multitude of benefits such as:

  • Massaging the abdominal organs helps with circulation and blood flow to these vital parts of our body

  • Massages and stimulates lymphatic circulation to support immune health and reduce swelling and inflammation throughout the body

  • Massages and stimulates smooth muscle tissue into peristalsis aiding in digestion

  • Massages pelvic organs and alleviates menstrual cramps as well as helps increase circulation to reproductive organs to keep them happy and healthy

Without this free movement our body is no longer receiving those amazing benefits leading to decreased circulation, decreased peristalsis, decreased functionality within the organs and organ systems in our abdomen.

Dysregulated Inner Abdominal Pressure

Our bodies are constantly having to adjust to the pressure within them. As we inhale, as we cough, as we sneeze, lift heavy weights contractions and muscles throughout our body displace the pressure and other muscles are meant to accommodate for this displacement. When a group of muscles especially ones as broad and covering as the abdominal muscles are in a constant state of shortened contraction regulation of inner abdominal pressure is harder to obtain and maintain. This puts unnecessary and excessive strain on the pelvic floor muscles, if this is a prolonged experience in our bodies this can lead to pressure conditions and injuries such as:

  • Urinary incontinence: the inability to control when urine leaves the body either from stress such as a sneeze or a cough or even just the inability to hold it in when urgency occurs

  • Pelvic organ prolapse: when the organs of the pelvis start to drop from their natural position this could impede into the vaginal canal and even sometimes out of the vaginal opening in severe cases Hiatal hernias

  •  Abdominal hernias

  •  Inguinal hernias

  •  Even herniated or bulging discs in the spine

Reclaiming Your Body and Breath

The negative effects from prolonged clenching of the abdomen is not inevitable and in minor cases even reversible. You can break free from Old Habits let that Buddha belly go and your breath move freely. And you can start to retrain your body and breath and bring Health back to your pelvis.

Step one. Right now relax your belly unclench your jaw take a deep breath in and let the lower abdomen go.

Take in another deep breath and see if you can even let the upper abdomen release.

This may take a few breaths and conscious unclenching. But as you breathe allow your belly to surrender to the expansion of that breath and not resist bringing the majority of the movement away from the chest and down to the abdomen.

Inhale envisioning your body as a balloon your throat the part of the balloon you blow into and your stomach and belly the body of the balloon your pelvic floor the very top. As you inhale you inflate this balloon allowing it to expand out from every angle front back left and right and even drop down towards the floor. As you exhale just like a deflating balloon everything just naturally softens. Repeat this practice for a few minutes see if you can get a little softer each time.

Abdominal Self Massage

Tight muscles all over the body love massage and love touch. Take time for some self-care and self-love by gently massaging your abdomen in a clockwise motion with smooth slow and rhythmic strokes. Listening to your body and never pressing too hard but taking the time to move slow enough to melt and soften the tissue beneath your fingers.

Meditation and Mindfulness

When breaking a habit it will take time and awareness. Multiple things usually need to be addressed, great ways to start:

  • Taking moments of gratitude thanking your body for all it does for you

  • Soft moments of check-in periodically checking in with your body and taking the time to breathe into your belly and bring softness where there might be holding

  • Journaling and reflecting on the patterns of clenching and sucking it in. If something comes up that you want to dive in deeper with a professional I highly recommend bringing your notes and your concerns.

  • Wear clothes that fit, comfortable clothes that will not be pressing into your abdomen encouraging that sucking in are a great way to bring some self-love and self-care into your day today allowing yourself to expand fully into your beautiful goddess self

  • Meditating with deep breath work allows for Full Belly breathing

Embrace Expansion, Not Contraction

The journey to better pelvic health begins with letting go of the need to make yourself small. By embracing the fullness of your breath and allowing your body to move freely, you can prevent and even reverse many of the harmful effects of chronic belly sucking. Yoga and mindful movement offer a compassionate path to reconnecting with your body, fostering resilience, and reclaiming the space you deserve to take up in the world.

Let your breath be expansive, your movements mindful, and your presence unapologetically full.


The Wellness Nook to Muladhara Movement

From Brick-and-Mortar to Online Wellness Education: Our Journey of Evolution and Empowerment

As we navigate the ever-changing landscape of wellness, our business has undergone a significant transformation. What began as a cozy brick-and-mortar wellness nook offering therapeutic massage and yoga has now evolved into a dynamic online wellness education platform. This shift allows us to reach and empower more women, offering them the tools and knowledge to understand their own bodies and achieve balanced health.

Embracing Change: Our New Online Presence

Our journey started with a simple but powerful mission: to provide a sanctuary where individuals could experience the healing benefits of massage therapy and yoga. Over the years, we cultivated a community of wellness enthusiasts who found solace and strength within our walls. However, the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic forced us to close our doors temporarily, prompting us to regroup and rethink our approach. This period of reflection and redirection led us to embrace the digital realm and expand our reach.

Transitioning to an online platform was a natural progression for us. It opened up new possibilities for connecting with women globally, transcending geographical boundaries. Our online classes are designed to support women in their wellness journeys, offering insights into their own anatomy and teaching them to use their bodies as keys to balanced health through yoga and self-massage.

Empowering Women Through Education

One of our core focuses in this new phase is women's wellness education. We believe that understanding one’s own body is fundamental to achieving overall health and well-being. Our classes cover a range of topics, providing women with the knowledge and tools they need to nurture their bodies and minds.

Key Offerings:

-Anatomy and Physiology: Classes that delve into the intricacies of the female body, helping women understand their anatomy and physiological processes.

- Yoga and Self-Massage: Practical sessions that teach women how to use yoga and self-massage techniques to promote physical and mental balance.

- Advocacy and Communication: Workshops that empower women with the language and confidence to understand and advocate for their own health needs.

Supporting All Women and Future Educators

We have courses that are designed to support all women, regardless of where they are on their wellness journey. Whether you are just beginning to explore holistic health practices or are looking to deepen your existing knowledge, our classes offer valuable insights and practical tools.

In addition to individual wellness classes, we also offer teacher training programs for yoga instructors. These programs equip yoga teachers with the skills and knowledge to support their female students more effectively. By training educators, we aim to create a ripple effect, spreading the benefits of our approach to women's wellness far and wide.

In-Person Retreats for Deeper Connection

While our online platform allows us to reach women across the globe, we understand the unique value of in-person experiences. For those who prefer face-to-face interaction, we continue to offer in-person women's retreats. These retreats provide an immersive experience where women can connect deeply with themselves and each other in a supportive, nurturing environment.

Community Outreach and Support

Our commitment to women's wellness extends beyond our paying clients. We are dedicated to making a positive impact on the broader community through our outreach programs. We offer free training to women who have been financially disenfranchised and those in lower socioeconomic situations. By working with refugees, women's shelters, and other community organizations, we strive to provide valuable resources and support to those who need it most.

A Community of Empowered Women

As we continue to grow and evolve, our commitment to building a supportive community remains unwavering. Our online platform not only provides educational resources but also fosters a sense of connection among women from diverse backgrounds. Together, we share experiences, learn from each other, and support one another in our journeys towards holistic well-being.

Join Us on This Journey

We are excited about the future and the opportunities it holds for our community. By embracing the digital realm, we can offer our unique blend of therapeutic practices and educational content to women everywhere. We invite you to join us on this journey of evolution and empowerment. Whether you're looking to enhance your personal wellness, attend a transformative retreat, or become a beacon of support in your community, our classes and training programs are here to guide you every step of the way.

Together, we can create a world where women are empowered to understand, nurture, and advocate for their own health, leading lives of balance and fulfillment.